Your Children Are Not Your Children

January 30, 2015 6:18 PM

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Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

Some of you may know these words from a poem by Kahlil Gibran. Some of you may know the lyrics from its adaptation by "Sweet Honey in the Rock," an all-woman, African-American, a cappella, gospel-inflected, ensemble. Their music was featured in our home (on our record player!) when my children were ...

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