Over the years, I've run into students who are frustrated. No matter how hard they try, how many processes they do, how many goals they set, how many barriers they overcome, they just can't seem to create the life they think they should have.
They'll say things like, "I should be much further along in my career" or "I should be in a terrific relationship by now." It might be their physique they're complaining about or that they haven't traveled, adventured, produced, learned, fill-in-the-blank enough.
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