On a friend's Facebook page was posted a statement that everyone does the best they can. Not sure I believe that. I find that people do the best they are WILLING to do. What if you see a need for change in yourself or in external circumstances and do nothing about it, thinking that someone else will clean up the mess? Is that doing your best?
I find myself falling into judgmental mode when I observe capable adults expecting others to "do their dishes" (literally or figuratively), having an entitled "me first" or "me only" attitude, pushing past others, treating the earth as if it is their ashtray and other people's right to breathe as se...
Also read: Teaching boys not to 'stalk for love'