It Pays to Be Emotionally Intelligent

November 21, 2014 1:20 PM

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Compassionate people know what it's like to be down on their luck, and they keep those experiences in mind to develop a more empathetic nature, whether through volunteering or just simply networking. "Compassionate people are very outward-focused because they think and feel about other people," Firestone says. "They have that ability to feel others' feelings, so they're very socially connected." And turns out, there's science behind why we feel compassion toward people who have been in our same boat. In one small study, researchers found that humans' sense of compassion actually increases when there's a common connection with the other person. "What these results suggest is that the compassion we feel for others is not solely a function of what befalls them: if our minds draw an association between a victim and ourselves -- even a relatively trivial one -- the compassion we feel for his or her suffering is amplified greatly," study researcher and Northeastern University psychology professor David DeSteno, Ph.D., wrote in The New York Times.

If money doesn't buy happiness, then according to studies from the University of California, Berkeley, it doesn't buy compassion, either. In one study, researchers found that as someone grew in social class, his or her compassion for others declined. The findings support previous research that showe...

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