There is a fundamental dilemma in the human condition. It's about change. We desire it but also fear it. It's an inevitable part of life, yet we often "kick and scream" our way through it.
As a society, we are obsessed with change -- changing ourselves and others. Just look at the hundreds of blog posts, articles and infomercials touting all sorts of advice on how to live a better, happier, sexier or richer life.