Growing up, I was a firecracker. I reacted quickly to situations and never hesitated to express my "passionate" opinions. This often led to hurt feelings. I remember once, after a heated discussion with my brother, he asked my parents to put a coffee filter over my mouth to "keep the yucky stuff inside."
My dad later took me aside and said, "Renee, you need to think before you speak. You're going to hurt people with that sharp tongue. This is something I really want you to work on."