Inquire Before You Accuse

November 3, 2014 6:13 PM

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Inquire Before You Accuse

Being fortunate to work worldwide with various people over the years, I've found there's a common denominator either leading people to their own demise, or rather towards a life that thrives: Are you assuming, accusing and making up stories in your head or are you curious, inquiring, hearing and learning? When we jump to conclusions it is just that conclusive. But what is the foundation of the accusation?

One client I will call Mary, continually repeats a rendition of the same old pattern. Mary goes to her fear first, re-telling a story to solidify her belief of not being lovable in her relationship and searches for circumstances to substantiate this narrative she's telling herself. Sound familiar? I...

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