There is no one path that a griever should walk. There is not even a right path. There is only your path.
As a griever, you are already walking a path that you did not ask to be on. The death of your loved one washed away the life path you were walking with them, and thrust you onto this unwanted and lonely path of grief and loss. A path that initially appears to lead nowhere.
Also read: Chuck Barris: Where No Man Has Gonged Before