Caught in a Relationship Conflict You Can't Solve? Why 'Leaving' It Helps

September 29, 2014 12:18 PM

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It's easy to become rigidly fixed and sclerosed within a view of who you are ("This is just the way I am") -- unable to envision possibilities for expanding your personal capacities, your thinking or emotions -- outside of that fixed view. Unfortunately, that disables you from enlarging your perspective, which can be essential for solving conflicts or problems that you feel stuck inside of, unable to change or alter. That's especially true for solving relationship difficulties.

President Eisenhower once said that if you're having difficulty understanding a problem and how to solve it, "enlarge" the problem. Certainly that applies to life beyond the battlefield. That is, "enlarging" how you envision the problem or situation you're stuck within can free yourself from the lim...

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