When someone close to you dies, you initially receive a good deal of advice and support. Some of it is helpful. Some, not so much. I recently posted an article titled "The 8 Worst Things You Can Say to Someone Who is Grieving." This is the companion piece that offers suggestions for helpful things you can say to someone who is newly grieving.
1. "I feel your pain." This is not the same thing as, "I know how you feel," which is a statement I would avoid uttering because even if you've shared a similar circumstance, everyone's journey is uniquely their own. The words, "I feel your pain," however, is an expression of empathy.