When I think of negativity, I am always reminded of a man I'll call Joe. It was the late 80's, my husband was fresh out of college and working at a tech startup. We were attending his first official holiday party and visiting with several of his colleagues when Joe joined our group.
Joe had an empty wine glass in one hand, and by the volume of his voice, I was pretty sure it wasn't his first drink of the night. He thrust his other hand out at me and said, "Hi. I'm Joe."