3 Smart Moves for Choosing a Mate

January 13, 2015 4:37 PM

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A few weeks ago, I wrote one of the most viewed posts of my blogging career -- long-married people's advice on what not to do in picking a mate. I shared three mistakes so obvious that the elders summed them up as "Don't be dumb." (I did get a bit of flak for using such a blunt expression, but it's what they told me!).

Since then, readers have been asking me: "Okay, the elders told me what not to do -- the dumb mistakes. But what should I do to make a smart choice?" I am happy to oblige! Based on a collective 25,000 years of marriage (described in my recent book), here are three of the elders' tips for making the ...

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